How To Keep From Freezing While Dating Sugar Baby–Part 2
Ok, moving on, now let's take a look at the rest of how to keep your conversation with sugar baby from freezing up during a date.
Tip # 5: choose a compelling dating spot If your choice of date spot is a typical cafe or fancy restaurant, this may increase your chances of freezing. That's because these standard interview locations often require you to sit down for an interview. And, to be honest, who really enjoys an interview? Moreover, these environments do not offer any exciting topics.
Therefore, you should choose a compelling meeting place that naturally elicits the conversation and offers an opportunity for activity in case the conversation breaks down. Some exciting spots include walking in the park; Hiking; Volunteer activities; Outdoor festivals and fairs; Museums and galleries; Or places that offer people beautiful scenery and/or amazing opportunities. None of this requires two people to sit awkwardly face to face.
Tip # 6: if you're nervous, admit it I know. She's beautiful. Most of all, she is very nice. Most of all, she's fun. No wonder you're so nervous! If you're feeling anxious, your knee-jerk reaction may be to put it away or ignore it. But the truth is, acknowledging and accepting anxiety is a key strategy for overcoming it. When you start to feel nervous, it's best to let her know. You can say:
"I'm not sure you can tell, but I'm a little nervous around you. Pretty and funny sugar babies tend to do that to me." "Or" so far, you're nice, funny, charming. Forgive me for being a little nervous." "Or" well, you're great. I just want you to know in case you find me a little nervous right now." Above all, make sure you deliver those types of lines with wit, charm and a smile. Suddenly, your nervousness turns into something that makes you more attractive to the sugar baby around you. This authenticity may make the sugar baby you're dating more comfortable, and she'll feel good that she's getting compliments.
Tip # 7: story time Each of our lives is a different story, and we all have moments to be proud of. Each of us should have at least a few experiences where we do or say something that makes us attractive. So think about where you really shine, whether at work, in social situations, or anywhere else.
Then come prepared with a few stories you can share, and make sure they show your charm and humility. Don't be too arrogant or boastful when sharing, but don't be too modest either. Remember, you want to attract this sugar baby, so go out with the mindset that you deserve to be desired (and you deserve it!).
Tip # 8: don't put all your eggs in one basket I saved my best advice for last! If you really want to optimize your dating success and actively pursue your goals, you need to stop putting all your eggs in one basket. Don't stare at one sugar baby at a time. "Now it's time to get yourself out on a date. With so many sugar daddy arrangement dating sites like Seeking waiting for you, what are you hesitating about?
Why multiple dates? Putting all your eggs in one basket is risky. So, you should date more than one sugar baby and distract yourself by keeping your calendar full. This will also keep you from getting stuck on a date because:
You won't be bothered by rejection because you have other options. You'll see right away that there really are a lot of fish in the ocean, and it will prevent you from settling for mediocrity or pursuing sugar babies that will eventually make you a friend.
Finally, did you play any sports in high school or college? For example, suppose you play basketball. Did you hit a 3-pointer the first time you hit a jumper on the court? Probably not. I guess it took you years of practice to master the art of the three-point shot. It's the same with dating -- you have to get out there and practice to become an expert.
Stop freezing: start heating up your dating life today Are you tired of the awkward dating life? Are you anxious about dating? Is dating a source of stress for you rather than an opportunity for fun and adventure? Don't worry. I'll help you with whatever problems you have with your date. Over the years I've worked on sugar daddy dating sites, I've helped sugar daddy's around the world overcome dating barriers and achieve their goals. If you're ready to do the same, join us. Or if you need to know the Part 1 of our series before you do, go ahead and read it!